It's that time again, where I sit back and reflect on another year come and gone. This post is always so bittersweet for me. It's amazing to see all we have accomplished and how much the littles have grown {and my, how they have grown!}. But it's also another chapter in our book of life closed. Sigh...
Unlike 2013 {I could have kicked that one in the rear on it's way out}, it's hard to say goodbye to 2014. As I dug through our pictures, it was almost impossible to pick just one event from each month. With three kids there is so much to relish in and so many significant changes along the way.
Most of which I saw in Lucy this year. I hardly recognized that sweet chubby faced baby back at the beginning of the year. I just kept watching her change through pictures as the months went by. I had to hold back a few tears...my last baby. How could this have happened? And so fast!
Honestly, most of the highlights I chose are happy and heart melting. Some are lasts, there are a few firsts and a couple onlys.
So shall we begin? Here's a look back at 2014...
January: Almost a year ago to date I was snowed in with my favorite family in the universe. The Snow Apocalypse that hit our city was one that I will never forget. It was dreadful and exciting all at the same time. The dreadful part was most definitely my wee {and nerve racking} drive home from pre-school with two baby girls. All the while worrying about my big boy stuck at school.
Once home, safe and sound, the exciting part began. And only after a giant exhale. We spent days catching snowflakes on our tongues, building snowmen, sledding hills, dressing and undressing from our adventures outdoors, and spending a lot of "quality" time together.
February: Lucy had her 18th month Birthday at the end of February. I found this to be a pivotal moment in my life as a Mommy of three. I can't lie...three rocked my world. I went from totally having it all together to totally trying to keep it all together. I wouldn't change adding to our family for the world. Lucy has been a blessing beyond my wildest dreams.
However, at 18 months I started to catch my breath again. Lu was dropping her morning nap...amen! And in her own little way, she was giving herself a voice and adding her Lululicios personality to it all!
March: I found myself regrouping in March. Trying to catch up for lost time {i.e. the previous year and a half of adjusting to our new family dynamics}. The first order of business was quality time with my oldest. My first born who was now off to Kindergarten full time. So that's basically the premise of how Jack's Extra Special Night was created.
I kidnapped him from school, drove him to a hotel with a car full of board games, and spent the evening just being with him. Extra special indeed...and I know he felt it.
April: It would seem obvious to choose my kid's birthday parties for the appropriate months. But, I haven't done that. Jacks is actually the only one. And this is because, it may have
possibly been his last. Okay, it I'm being honest, I hope it's not his last, and "possibly" is really only a big fat giant "maybe".
But, that being said, Jack has chosen to take a trip this year for his big 8. I'm certainly excited, but also dealing with the emotions that our Animal Adventure was the last boy party I may ever get to plan in celebration of, well, my favorite boy.
May: Huge accomplishments for my littlest this month. Lucy became a swimmer and an ISR graduate. I was so proud of her and marveled in the way she took her lessons with such stride. My fastest and easiest swimmer of all. Kudos to Lu!
June: Our summer was filled with vacations, camps, and fulfilling "Summer Lists". But the best part of June was spending a week at the beach with my family. Something about the sand and the sunshine...it's just a part of me and probably always will be.
July: We took our first Disney Cruise this month. It exceeded all my expectations. You better believe this will be in another year's review...one day!
August: In August, I sent all three of my kiddos back to school. As always it was bittersweet. But nothing sticks in my mind more than the fact that it was Lucy's first year in pre-school and Maggie's last year in pre-school. The latter literally brings me to tears. I will NEVER be prepared for my Maggie to go to Kindergarten this year. NEVER.
September: September seemed to be a kick off for the Frozen phenomenon that would soon engulf our lives. As if it hadn't already been Maggie's latest and greatest obsession, we spent the next three months immersed in it. We started with the Frozen on Ice show, followed by an Elsa halloween costume, then a Frozen birthday party, and capped it off with enough Frozen loot to fill a Disney store for Christmas. The movie that just keeps on giving...
October: So much happened in October, but the most endearing of all was seeing the final product from our family photo session. I fell in love with my family all over again {maybe because they can't argue, wiggle, and bounce off the walls in a photograph}.
November: I can't believe it, but I started the year off with a baby and ended it with a potty trained toddler. As I mentioned before, the greatest changes in 2014 were with this little one. For the first time in 7 odd years, we are diaper free! Okay, I best be honest...we are still sporting a bed time diaper. Even with that, it has been so freeing. Although, I think I've seen every public restroom in a 20 mile radius over the past couple of months.
From dropping naps, to swimming, to potty training, this gal of mine has had quite a year.
December: For my last month of 2014, I didn't choose the obvious. Yes, we adore Christmas and all the family and festivities that come with it. But, this December, something else caught my attention.
I'm sure I've mentioned this at some point or another, but Jack adores school. And anytime we hit a break on the calendar we experience a wee bit of turbulence. He has an adjustment period whether it be at the beginning of the break, the end, or both.
This winter break proved no different.
We just happened to be going through an adjustment when we made our visit to Stone Mountain this year. As hard as it is to do, sometimes I just have to sit back and wait for him to "snap out of it". So what makes this event so memorable to me was Jack...up on the mountain...totally carefree...happy...full of life...and in total explorer mode.
It was almost as if the fresh air and the freedom morphed his attitude. I can't really explain it except for that he was just a different child. I think he could lived up there and been happy all the days of his life. I don't think I'll ever forget the side of him that I saw that day. And how he "snapped out of it" up on a mountain of all places.
So there it is. Our 2014. Over all a pretty fabulous year with a lot of growing and changing. I truly feel blessed to have spent it with my party of five. All of it...the good, the bad, and the bittersweet.
As hard as it is to say goodbye to another year, I'd be lying if I didn't say I was looking forward to 2015 {not so much the Kindergarten thing though}. I foresee a lot of traveling {because I've already got 3 fun vacations planned-and that's only in the first half of the year}, a family wedding, some more growing and changing, and more than likely a little adjusting.
I'm thinking we are on the brink of an amazing 2015.
Here's to a healthy, happy, and memory filled new year! Goodbye 2014-you were mighty good to us!