
This is just a short rant from a frustrated Mommy. I don't need any comments on how uptight, overly organized, or how schedule bound I am. I CAN be flexible just not 5 days in a row. Without further ado, here is my rant...
Nap time has been AWFUL around here for 5 days straight. And if you know my Jack, naps are rarely a problem. If there is a problem, it's too much sleep. But, the past 5 days have been anything but that. I put him down between 1:30 and 2:00 after a very active morning and a good lunch. He takes Lovey and we part ways. Normally, he would be crashed out, oh, in about 15 min. After a book or two on his own, he would be in snoozeville. However, this week it has been a full out play session up there. He sings...loud, he flips, rolls, and jumps, he dances his Lovey along the crib rail, he pulls the letters of his name off the wall, and he talks...a lot! I've tried to ignore him. Normally, I would just say "oh well, he misses a nap today", and go on with my household duties. But, today...day #5 mind you, I am so frustrated!! I have gone in there one time everyday and in a very stern and serious voice reminded him that "it is nap time". "Our crib is for sleeping, not for playing". Do you think he cares? Not a bit. He gives me that precious Jack grin and without a hesitation starts up a very enthusiastic conversation with me. I don't give in, I don't even smile. I simply say "night, night" and close the door. He talks to me until I'm down the hall. It doesn't seem to be working.
My other strategy--remove all books and stuffed guys from his bed. No distractions, right? Ha! That's the day he pulled the letters off the wall. He's going to find something to entertain himself whether I provide it or not. I really don't think that is the issue though. Those things in his crib never caused a nap issue before, why should they now?
Now, if you think that is the best part, you are sorely mistaken. Oh no, it gets better. I make him stay in his crib until 4:00. I figure that is fair because on a normal nap day he would be sleeping until 4:30-5:00 anyway. Besides, he's having a great time up there. However, the best part is...four of the five days, he has crashed right at 3:50.
'Are you kidding me?' is all I can think. No lie, I've watched my video monitor and it's true. So then, I go to plan B--he gets until 4:30ish. Yes, what once was a two to three hour nap is now 45 glorious minutes. What a waste of 3 hours...ugh!
Finally today, I pulled out my sleep bible. I haven't looked at that book since J was dropping his A.M. nap about 7 months ago. The only advice I got was make sure bedtime is appropriate--check--and wake time is sufficient that the child recieved enough sleep--check again. And then it gave a solid reminder that the average kiddo doesn't drop their P.M. nap until at least age 3. I knew that and we ARE NOT dropping a nap. So, where to go from here? I guess just ride this out and chalk it up to another stage.
We've gone through this before. However, it was only a day or two at a time. Not 5 days straight. Has this ever happened to anyone else? And if so, what did you do? (and don't tell me to relax and be flexible--this does not call for flexibility)
Note: these pictures were taken post 45 minute nap...a 45 minute nap does not equal a happy toddler in my house:) or a happy Mommy for that matter