The Best Day

Thursday was the best day. It will definitely go down as one of my favorites.

Thursdays are usually my errand day. Abby comes and keeps Jack and Maggie. Many times Jack has a friend over to play and I am on my way to mark things off of my "to do" list. But, this Thursday we hadn't made any friend plans and Jack had been an angel all week (unlike my teething Maggie), so I invited him to go with me. I warned him that we had many stops to make, which included Target, and after mentioning that, he was in.

I loaded my little man in the car and we were off. I will admit, I wondered how this would work, if I could get everything done, and if Jack would have the patience to let me do it. Let me just say, it did work!

Our first stop was a haircut for Jack--always a favorite task for him. He sat in the Taxi, ate his lollipop, and got down looking as handsome as ever. Our next stop was Target. This was a highly anticipated stop for him. I prefaced our entrance with, "Mommy has to get all these things from the list first and then we will go look at toys". Not a complaint in the world came from his sweet mouth. He happily helped me choose gift bags for upcoming birthday parties, toiletries for Maggie, paper towels, bulletin boards for our new mudroom (which is almost finished--I'll share pics soon), Halloween candy, and even laundry detergent. We talked...a lot. He asked lots of questions about items on the shelf and I enjoyed responding to his curiosity. It was really nice...just me and Jack.

We finally made it to the toy aisle and I let him choose one toy. He was thrilled. He went up and down every aisle, inspected everything, just as a 3 year old would and finally made a choice. It was a Little People Ambulance. I love how my little guy is in no hurry to grow up. When all his friends are in to Super Heroes and Toy Story, my Jack has stayed a true toddler--he still loves Little People. I asked repeatedly, "are you sure this is it?" and without wavering he consistently answered "yes". I am happy to say he has already worn that thing out playing with it every chance he gets. Last minute we threw a stuffed Count Von Count in the cart from Sesame Street. It is one of the only characters he is missing and I couldn't resist--not too mention he had been a perfect shopping buddy. His manners were impeccable and when I told him we could add Count, he exclaimed, "Thank you Mommy, I love it!" with a giant hug around Count's neck. It was worth that one little sentence.

Afterwards we made our way to the beauty supply shop. We needed to get some ringlets for Maggie's Halloween costume bonnet. We both laughed at the silly hair hanging on the wall and he even tried on a few pieces. Again, he inquired about almost everything on the shelves and again, I loved answering him. Jack made best friends with the store clerk (he was that irresistible) and she let him "help" her restock the items he had been inspecting. I couldn't help but tell him over and over again how much I loved him. I don't even think he got tired of hearing it.

Jack and I then walked down to one of our favorite lunch spots. It's his favorite because they have Cheetos--a very rare treat for him. I ordered our lunch and he found a table for 2 and waited patiently for me to come sit with him. When I got there he announced, "Mommy I saved this seat just for you". Obviously, there were only 2 seats and he was in one of them, but oh, how sweet it sounded coming out of his mouth. We ate lunch and talked about all the fun things we had seen and done that day. He was such a gentleman--it might have been one of the nicest lunch dates I have ever had.

After leaving lunch, Jack and I decided to make an impromptu stop at Fresh Market. We both love their Pumpkin Bread which is in season. We loaded up with 3 loaves and a couple other goodies. In the produce section, we both spotted the biggest apples we had ever seen in our lives. For him that doesn't say much, but for me 33 years is a long time. Jack picked out the largest one he could find (it was almost as big as his head) and we headed to the checkout counter. We washed the apple and he chomped on it all the way to our final destination.

Our last stop was ordering food for Maggie's upcoming 1st birthday party. Again, Jack was a jewel. He did get a little antsy in those last few minutes, but it was nothing my iphone couldn't handle.

We both came home with giant smiles on our face and bags in hand. Jack had been perfect all day--and there is no exaggeration in that. We had amusing conversations, held hands everywhere we went, and his manners were top notch. I fell in love with my oldest all over again. It really was the best day!

Before heading upstairs, he set up his Little People ambulance and Count in the living room and told them he would be back to play after his nap. Just as promised he returned after his nap and had plenty of time to enjoy them until dinner. Both toys are still housed in the living room, days later, and he does not allow them in his toy box, I'm assuming for easier access.

And though this day may sound like nothing to you, it meant EVERYTHING to me. As I went to bed Thursday night with that same smile plastered to my face, I told Clay, "I will always remember today, it was the best day". And if I ever do forget (which I don't think I possibly could), I have it all written down now.